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There is nothing hotter to me than watching a sexy woman getting naked and smoking a cigarette! This is why I have a smoking fetish. Watching a woman reaching down between her legs and rubbing her clit while exhaling a mouthful of smoke is one of those things that will drive me so wild I can’t stand it.

It doesn’t really matter to me what the woman looks like, either. They can be skinny or heavy set, old or young and I will still be enthralled with watching them smoking and playing. It’s one of those things that I can’t exactly explain but I am very happy that it’s out there for me to partake of.

You would think that if you have a smoking fetish you would be a smoker also but that is not always the case. I have never smoked anything but it’s a huge turn on for me to watch a lady doing it. I have many web sites bookmarked on my computer that help me in my need to release my frustration with my smoking fetish and all of them are very good. I even enjoy watching the occasional lady smoking on a cigar from time to time.

There aren’t many things that I don’t like when it comes to anything sexual, but having a lady smoking while I’m having sex with her is probably the best thing I could ever imagine. I know that it takes away from the moment just a bit for her, but for me it’s the ultimate accompaniment. That’s all part of the smoking obsession that I possess and I will never let it go as far as I can see. It’s something that has kept me going for all of these years.

If you happen to have a very strong smoking fetish, like I do, then there are places online that you can check out to get all the good videos and pictures. All you have to do is type it in to your search engine and look through all the sites that come up. You would be surprised at just how many smoking sites there are that involve hot women and smoking. It almost blew my mind the first time I did a search and it took me nearly four hours just to go through the first page of results. Now, that is a fetish that has a lot going for it.

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If you get a shiver running down your spine every time you see a lady in a pair of heels, or you start to get a bit stiff watching her walk across the beach in bare feet, then chances are you have a foot fetish. This will mean that you know exactly what is so sexy about a woman’s foot and you will strive to massage, rub, smell, and even suck on that foot.

Seeing a woman’s beautiful foot in your hands is one of those things that can truly make you cum without any thought what so ever. Just the scent of a foot can make a guy who loves feet shoot his load in his pants without the use of his hands. That’s what it means to have a fetish like this. There is no pain involved unless you want them to walk all over you. That part of the fetish can include wearing heels also.

Most foot fetish guys have an unusual fascination with feet and the shoes that go on them. They can spend hours upon hours fixating all of their attention on a woman’s feet and be perfectly happy to not even have sex. Just as long as they get to partake in the sensuality of their special fetish, everything will be perfect for them. These are the guys that all of you ladies want to have rubbing your feet after a hard day’s work.

Some foot loving guys even go so far as to buy their own heels and stockings to wear around the house when they do not have another’s feet there to worship. This is not cross dressing but simply a way for them to have the visual of a woman’s feet around them all the time. Most guys with a foot fetish also have a wonderful eye for painting toe nails.

If you have an abnormally strong love of feet you already know all about this and, chances are, you will have things that you like that others might not like. Some for example prefer harsh sweaty feet over nice clean feet. They would prefer that you went out jogging for two hours then come home and rub your feet all over their faces and make them sniff your shoes. That is a bit on the domination side of the fetish and doesn’t necessarily go for all guys that have a foot fetish but they all do enjoy the feet.

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I was going out with this girl for a bit and we decided that it was time for us to finally have sex. After six dates, I was eager to please her so I asked what she was into. It was then that I found out all about breast bondage and how exciting it can be for both partners.

When she said “bondage”, I immediately had a vision of me in a rubber or leather suit standing over her in chains. With this visual in mind, I thought that might not be what I was looking for in a sexual relationship. However, she explained to me that it was only her breasts and I didn’t have to wear anything fancy for it, either. That came as a big relief as I would have felt a bit odd doing breast bondage in a tight leather outfit.

She explained that you take a strap or a nylon rope and tie it all around her torso making sure to wrap it around her breasts so that they were tied up, also. This, I thought, I would have no problems doing so I got out the rope and started to go to work on her. She walked me through the breast bondage step by step. It was in this way that I found out there are actually certain types of knots that you use, not to mention a whole procedure to follow as you do this.

I was fascinated by what she was telling me to do but I was nervous that I might hurt her in some way. That is until she kept telling me to make it tighter. Evidently, she gets her thrill from it being nice and tight, and here I was worried I would hurt her.

Now, when we do breast bondage together I just make it as tight as I can, and if it’s too tight she lets me know right away, so I don’t hurt her too much. This way we still have all the communication and she still gets to have her breasts tied up nice and tight. It also works out really well that she has a huge chest. If they were too small I don’t think I would be able to tie them up quite as well as I do now. Maybe I would have to use string or something small instead of the rope that we bought specifically for her. Happily, that’s not an issue.

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Is regular bondage just not getting you off like it used to? Maybe you should try some water bondage, then. It’s really easy to get into but you have to be extra careful as you don’t really want anyone to drown or anything in the middle of an extremely great orgasm.

The first thing you should do is study a bit on the internet to see what this type of bondage actually is. It’s pretty easy to find sites that are dedicated to it just like any other fetish that exists. Once you have looked into the whole concept that is before you, then you can make your plans on what you are going to do.

Now, most people don’t have all the things that water bondage requires and that is fine. Not too many people have access to high pressure water hoses and rather large dunking tanks, but you can make do with your bath tub and a detachable shower head if that is all you have. Besides, it’s always a good thing to start off small with what you have rather than building and buying all the more extreme aspects just to find out that it’s not really what you were looking for to begin with.

It would probably be a good idea to make sure that your partner is also willing to go through with water bondage. Tying up your wife and throwing her in the bath tub might sound like fun but if she isn’t a willing participant you might find yourself chatting with your lawyer trying to see what the best recourse would be in keeping all of your stuff from being sold to pay for her psychiatric bills.

Once the two of you are set and know what is going to be happening, you should start off slow and work your way up. Don’t try to go all the way with water bondage right off the very first time. It can be quite dangerous and you don’t want anything bad to happen to either of you. Take your time and slowly work your way up to more extreme possibilities. However, always remember just how dangerous this type of bondage can be. Make sure you have a safety word so you can stop at a moment’s notice just in case things get a bit out of hand. As long as you both are willing, why not give it a try.

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Nothing says sex like being tied up and forced to do things that you wouldn’t normally do. Bondage sex is one of those things that isn’t for everybody. However, if you are adventurous and willing to submit yourself to your partner, it’s something that you may want to try out.

If you are tired of the everyday physical contact of any given sexual encounter, why not break out a bit of rope and let yourself get tied down to the bed. This gives your partner the ability to take control and do what they will to you. You have to have a very strong foundation in trust with your partner for this to work out, though. You must be able to completely let go of any control of the situation.

If you have ever thought about having bondage sex with your partner, you should probably sit down and discuss everything that the two of you are expecting to achieve. Each of you should be clear about what you will and will not be doing. This will set some ground rules so that you won’t be taken advantage of and forced to do things you absolutely are not willing to try.

Once the two of you have given a great deal of thought and communication to what you want from bondage sex, you can then surf the internet to see which way you want to go with it. If you are only interested in something mild, you should both be aware of what that could entail. If you want something a bit more dramatic, take into consideration how much time will be involved and make sure to plan for this.

Be confident that you are ready for what is to come. Take the time to prepare yourselves and have everything ready. Nothing is worse than having someone all tied up and ready for great bondage sex only to find out a key item is missing. Then you have to run off to find it, leaving your partner tied up in a very uncomfortable position for an extended period of time. If you are planning on any kind of bondage, you should also make sure that you are very confident in how to tie the various knots that are used. Take your time to learn all that you can and do some practicing on each other before hand to make sure you don’t hurt each other.

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Now, what could possibly be hotter than watching two lesbians having an all out fuck fest? That would have to be watching lesbian bondage. Nothing says sexy as hell like watching two lesbians tying each other up in those great sexual positions.

I found that out when the girls that live across the hall from me in my apartment complex asked me if they could borrow some rope. When I asked them what they needed it for they smiled at each other and asked if I wanted to give them a hand. Being a bit curious I decided I would find out what they were using my rope for. Was I ever glad that I did! Lesbian bondage is one of the hottest things I have ever witnessed firsthand in my entire life.

I got to sit there and watch as they took turns tying each other up to the bed and various pieces of furniture in their apartment. I was so fucking hard by the end of all of that I almost exploded when I stood up. They wouldn’t let me fuck them but I had an image in my mind for three weeks straight. All I had to do was think of the words lesbian bondage and my cock swelled up so much that it hurt.

I really enjoyed the part where they had me tie them both up together while they were in a 69. Oh God, that was hot! They had to direct me in every move of tying them up but it was so worth it to get to watch. That kind of lesbian bondage is what I would get a sex change to be a part of.

Now, I get them coming over all the time to ask if they can borrow things to go along with their little escapades. There have even been times when I might not have something but ran out to the store just to make sure they could use it. I haven’t gotten to watch or participate again but they have been kind enough to give me pictures and videos of all the wonderful lesbian bondage that they have done. I think they like the fact that I enjoy watching as much as they enjoy doing it. In fact, I think it makes them try new things just to see the reaction I give them. Maybe they ARE trying to freak me out a bit.

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I got hooked up with this girl by my cousin. Now, my cousin is a sweet girl and I would never have imagined that she would be friends with a girl that has a fascination with bondage pictures. But I have jumped ahead and now you know where this is going to go.

I am not personally all that into bondage or at least I wasn’t really that into it until I went out with this friend of my cousins. She was very sweet and highly intelligent. She was some kind of business administrator for a major corporation and I figured we would just go out to dinner and that would be about it. How wrong I was that night.

It turns out she is part of this underground club that has a thriving business catering to the bondage scene. She took me there to show me what she was into. At first, I was a bit uncomfortable, but it started to fascinate me how they had all of these bondage pictures that seemed very artistic hanging from the walls.

We sat down in a booth and ordered some drinks. The menu even had pictures on it representing the different menu items they offered. After a couple drinks and some small talk, she asked me to come into the back room and watch a show. I thought it would be like a video or maybe some more bondage pictures and said yes. She walked me into this dark room and sat me in a chair whispering that she would be right back.

That is when I found out what was going on. She was in the room in front of me behind the curtain, getting tied up. When the curtain came up I was the one that was supposed to take the pictures of her. Evidently she really got off having someone take pictures of her like this and she actually had a whole scrap book full of bondage pictures that she had taken in this club. I am not a world class photographer or anything, and most of the pictures I took were a bit blurry and out of focus, but I actually had a very pleasant time that night. I have to admit that we go back to that club frequently. I guess the next time we go I am supposed to be the one getting tied up. That’s what I have been told, at least.

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I have been slightly interested in bondage for most of my adult life. None of that really harsh stuff with spikes and gags and all of that, but the lighter side of bondage seems to me to be fairly interesting. That’s when I found out just how rough it is to do self bondage.

Now, I am not the most flexible guy on earth, but I thought I would see what I could do. I went online and found a fascinating site that had everything that one might need in order to learn how to do this sort of bondage. They had it all from the novice beginner to the extreme punisher aspect. So I thought what the hell; let’s give it a shot.

You know that feeling you have when you try something and right before all hell breaks loose you actually realize in a very profound way that you are probably going to regret your decision? That’s the feeling I got right before my roommate had to call for an ambulance because of my self bondage attempt.

The first thing I had to do was learn some knots. Now, that wasn’t very hard, as I was a Boy Scout when I was younger. The next was to learn how to start and work your way up to being completely bound. It started out very well with tying my legs to the bed posts but it wasn’t all that great when I tried to get my hands done. I ended up leaning too far over and getting the rope tangled around my waist. My adventure in self bondage ended when I fell off the bed, partially, and rolled to one side. My legs were still tied and I had one hand under and behind my back tied to a bed post. The rope went up and over my head and somehow became a gag. Do you know how difficult it is to scream for help with a rope in your mouth? I do.

Needless to say, with one hand partially free I was able to bang on the wall and wake my roommate up. He couldn’t get the knots undone that I had tied and ended up calling an ambulance to come help me. I kept trying to tell him to just cut the rope but it belonged to him and he really wanted to teach me a lesson about self bondage. As if laughing wasn’t bad enough.

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I’m not one to be hanging out in chat rooms on the internet all the time, but I just couldn’t resist being in one last Friday night. I was having a very quiet night at home by myself when I found this chat room that was all about bondage stories. I was intrigued and decided I would check it out to see what it was all about. I’m not one for bondage, but I thought that hearing other people’s stories would be interesting and entertaining for me.

I was reading these stories about what happens when bondage goes wrong and was laughing my ass off at some of these people. You can imagine being tied up and having your husband or wife walk in on you but some of this stuff would have devastated me. Like the one couple that had their children walk in on them!

There were also a couple bondage stories that involved having the cops show up and try to arrest people for kidnapping and torture. Can you imagine what it would be like to have your wife tied up and hanging upside down from the ceiling as you are smacking her ass with a paddle when the SWAT team breaks in your door because of a complaint from a neighbor about a possible domestic dispute? Yeah, that’s something EVERYONE wants to experience!

What about the stories of the professional Mistress who had an old man tied up and he started to have a heart attack? The ambulance showed up before she was able to get him completely untied. Now, those are some stories you don’t want your grand children to know about.

I think I almost peed myself a couple of times reading some of these bondage stories. The people that were telling them were even finding them a bit funny. Well, the one with the guy having a heart attack wasn’t all that funny but he did survive so that is a very good thing. But the rest were told in a way that only a person with a sense of humor could possibly understand them.

I guess it takes all kinds of people to make the world turn and these bondage stories were some of the greatest entertainment I could have ever hoped for on my Friday night alone. I stop in that chat room from time to time just to see what might be happening next. I have to say that I’m never disappointed.

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Now, I have heard many BDSM stories in my life, and read quite a few of those online, but nothing prepared me for what I found out from a friend of mine after he came back from vacation in the Orient.

He went with his wife for a month traveling around the Orient. They were really enjoying themselves. They had just gotten into their hotel one night when they went to see what movies they might be able to watch. Well, when they got into the porn channels (what’s the fun of going to a hotel without checking out the porn channels?) they found a whole area on BDSM?

He was telling me BDSM stories that would make a sailor blush. There was the one that had a guy strapped to this table like apparatus on the wall. Then the leather clad and masked female mistress would spin him upside down and force this huge dildo in his ass. The guy would try to scream out but she would kick him in the chest with these spike toed heels that she wore. Then she shoved some kind of ball gag in his mouth.

Every time he told me these types of stories I could see his eyes focus on something that wasn’t actually in front of us, like he was drifting back in time thinking about the horror he had witnessed. I could tell that he was very uncomfortable with what he was seeing but for some reason he just couldn’t stop watching. That happens a lot to people when they see something so hard to process that they can’t tear their eyes away.

One of the BDSM stories he related to me was how this guy was forcing needles through the nipples of this one woman. Every time she tried to cry out from the pain he would slap her in the face and yell at her to shut up. He said he couldn’t watch that one for very long so he didn’t see what else was happening to her.

It just goes to show you that there are all kinds of people in the world and they all find different ways to get pleasure. I’m not one for anything like that personally. I have been tied up a couple times but silk scarfs and blindfolds don’t really make good BDSM stories as far as I am concerned. Although, my wife highly enjoyed that night and I really can’t blame her for that as I thoroughly enjoyed it myself as well.